Lily’s Glow Up Diary: How I Keep My Hair Soft, Shiny & Healthy as a Blonde

Okay besties, real talk: blondes might have more fun, but keeping blonde hair soft, shiny, and healthy? It takes WORK. As your local self-care queen (and a proud product junkie), I’ve tested so many viral hair products and finally nailed down a routine that keeps my golden locks glowing!

I've been building a haircare routine for a few years, and while I’m a natural blonde, I get a little ✨boost✨ from my stylist every few months to keep things looking fresh. Here’s exactly what I use to keep my hair healthy, hydrated, and full of main character energy.

Everyone’s hair is a little different, but who knows — your new holy grail product might be on this list 👀

Step 1: Scalp & Hair Oils

Hair care girlies know that healthy hair starts at the roots! I’m obsessed with JVN’s Complete Pre-Wash Scalp Oil. It’s golden (just like my hair 💛), smells AMAZING, and gives my scalp the love it deserves. I use a little Sephora scalp massager to help it sink in and do its thing.

I also love a few spritzes of AG’s hair slip dry oil for repair and hydration– it’s my not-so-secret weapon for keeping my hair suuuuper soft! 

Step 2: Hair Therapy 

Yes, bestie, hair needs therapy too! My go-to is Gisou’s Honey Gloss Ceramide Therapy Hair Mask. It’s thick, rich, and totally luxurious. I brush it through with my WetBrush and let it sit for 5–7 minutes (aka the perfect amount of time for a face mask!!)  It makes my hair feel strong, smooth, and shiny!

Step 3: The Hair Wash

I like to keep my hair wash products gentle, especially with my blonde hair. I use TBH Kids’ Shampoo and Conditioner— it’s specially formulated for teens and tweens! It’s free of harsh chemicals (just like my World of LLA products!), super gentle, and smells soooo good. We love a product that works and keeps things simple.

Step 4: Styling

After washing, I go in with Moroccanoil’s Hydrating Styling Cream– it’s thick and creamy and perfect for blow-drying without the frizz. Speaking of tools, I’m obsessed with the DryBar Blow-Dryer Brush. It’s easy to use, quick, and gives me that smooth, bouncy finish every time.

Don’t forget your heat protectant, bestie!!! I use Pureology’s Heat + Colour Protect Spray — it’s made for color-treated hair and helps me keep my strands safe whenever I style. It’s essential for keeping my blond hair from getting fried.

Step 5: The Finishing Touch

Last but definitely not least: SHINE. I finish off with a few drops of Gisou’s Hair Oil to lock in moisture, add shine, and tame any frizz or static. It’s a cult fave for a reason — this stuff is gold in a bottle.

So that’s my hair care routine, besties! Whether you’re blonde like me or just looking to upgrade your glow-up routine, I hope this gives you some inspo!!

Have you tried any of these products? Or did you find your next fave from this list? Tag me in your selfies @lilyraeharper — I wanna see those shiny strands 💁🏼♀️💖